Valuable Lessons

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My bby needs to learn and grow as well as get more problems to face. I need YOU to help her out. This can be by giving suggestions to how she learns, or suffer and even volunteering a character.

Birchy bby

Problems: Lacks self-confidence, doesn't know how exactly to be the best her, strives to please everyone, doubts her abilities as a mentor. She also has a slight fear of dense places and big battles thanks to the war. She also believes that her fears, doubts, and concerns make her weak and needs to learn that being brave isn't being fearless but it is facing your fears.She can't understand the big picture of things and feels like everything is intensely important. She needs to learn how to let things go and keep moving rather than dwelling on her failures. Once she becomes a mother, she'll be clueless and feel like she's failing at parenting as well.

I'm only doing her for now because Newtpaw and Wildpaw are going to teach each other a very important lesson. >:D

Swoop will help in whatever way he can

Heatherpetal's already a pretty good friend to Birchheart, and she's once struggled -- and sometimes is still struggling -- with the same problems she's going through now. Maybe she can help her out. :3

I'll take you guys up on the offers. You know your characters best, what would they do best when it comes to helping her out?

I think Heatherpetal would be great at helping her become comfortable with her role as a mentor considering she's trained three apprentices (counting Spottedpelt).

I'm not too sure about what Swooppaw could do but, I'm certain there's something. Swooppaw knows the most about her.

Yeah, Heatherpetal's pretty much got the role of mentor down in the bag. She can definitely help her out.

Did you have any plans on making topics so the cats could help Birchheart or something?

Yeah, I'm making topics, I just needed ideas first. Maybe she can help Heatherpetal with Sunpaw and Dappledpaw in our patrol topic? With Heatherpetal's support and the chance to model the way she teaches, it'll help her out. I can find someone with an apprentice that's struggling with something and then Birchheart can use what she learned to help the apprentice out. Oddly enough, I never catch her actual apprentice when their online.

That's just fine with me! ^^

cOOL

I also thought of something for Swooppaw! From his trip to Moonstone, the two share the same doubts about hard work. However, Birchheart is much harder on herself than she is on others. If he'd do it, he could talk about his own concerns and she'd say he was doing fine. Swooppaw could point out that she's not treating herself the way she treats others.

Hey maybe my cats can do something cause daisyheart and her crush or in a fight so she is concerned that it will never end. And spottedpelt is scared of crowpaw because his reaction to her kits could be awful. Also if u pick spottedpelt she already in topic u can join.

Okay! Would you like that to happen before of after his warrior ceremony?

Either one, I know how slow Moonstone trip are. We can do it before if you want but, if you want some downtime in your roleplay agenda, it can happen afterward.

His warrior ceremony is in a day or two, so I think after would be fine.